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TOGETHER WE STAND: Richard and Luis Vieira Rise Above Anti-Gay Attack

TOGETHER WE STAND: Richard and Luis Vieira Rise Above Anti-Gay Attack

by Delena Wilkerson

Sun, Aug 22, 2010

The letter I received from Richard Vieira began this way; “I wanted to share something with your magazine readers. It was a bad thing and wrong that happened to me and my husband Luis in the beginning of July. We were the victims of a hate crime here in Staten Island, NY. I suffered some injuries, luckily Luis didn’t." Research shows that people who have not been the victim of a violent crime may have a hard time understanding the impact it has. We're certain your understanding will improve with their stories included here. Yes, Richard and Luis were victimized by so-called thugs, but they are not victims. Not now.

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Welcome to September 2010!

There is a lot going on for same-sex couples these days, including international progress in the advance of marriage equality, growing support for the end of homophobia and racism of all kinds. There is also our day-to-day living that ranges from making our children feel safe in school to figuring out which home repairs we need to make. All of it, and much more, is addressed in this month's edition.

Also in this issue is information about the upcoming celebration of our first anniversary! You don't want to be left out! (HINT: If you're not yet a subscriber, this would be the ideal time to sign up!)

Take your time perusing this issue; there is much to absorb and much to enjoy.

September's Days to consider --

US National Hispanic Heritage Month

US Labor Day 9/6

Rosh Hashanah 9/9

Grandparents Day 9/12

National Stepfamily Day 9/16

Yom Kippur 9/18

International Day of Peace 9/21

Start of Northern Hemisphere's Autumn 9/23

Native Americans Day 9/24

American Gold Star Mothers Day 9/26

Gay and Lesbian Relationship Matters

For Lesbians Only: Intimate Lesbian Connection

For Lesbians Only: Intimate Lesbian Connection

Fri, Aug 27, 2010

High on love? Yes, it is wonderful and makes us do wonderfully stupid things -- like move in together after two weeks -- and, no, I am not pointing any fingers!

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For Gay Men Only: Monogamy: What does it really mean?

For Gay Men Only: Monogamy: What does it really mean?

by Kellie Lee Owen

Tue, Aug 17, 2010

Marriage is a contract between you and your partner. If you have both agreed to monogamy, then any violation is considered a breach of that contract.

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Same Gender Vows and Unions

Creating a Heart-Centered Commitment Ceremony, Part 3

Creating a Heart-Centered Commitment Ceremony, Part 3

by Jeanine Byers Hoag

Sat, Aug 21, 2010

This article is the third in a series about creating and personalizing your commitment ceremony. Have you considered adapting the traditional Chinese Tea Ceremony?

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Amy Talks Gay Marriage

Amy Talks Gay Marriage

Thu, Aug 19, 2010

Wanna know how to plan a gay wedding? Learn from this video report of Amy's mistakes and laughs.

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Gay and Lesbian Family Matters

Back to School in the Gay Household

Back to School in the Gay Household

by Jasz "John" Szlachetka

Wed, Aug 25, 2010

Even though we supposedly live in a society which is more tolerant and accepting of same sex families, at school many situations can arise which can cause problems.

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More Positive Parenting Tips

More Positive Parenting Tips

Tue, Aug 17, 2010

Is your parenting style authoritarian, a style that imposes strict rules, rewards, and punishments? Are you afraid of giving up even a little control?

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Living the Domestic Gay Life

Estimating Home Repair and Improvement Costs

Estimating Home Repair and Improvement Costs

Fri, Aug 20, 2010

One of the biggest unknowns for many homeowners is how to estimate home repair costs. Depending on who writes the estimate, it can be confusing and very difficult to understand exactly what is included and what is the actual amount of money you'll be expected to pay.

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Entertaining: Tips For a Fall Garden Party

Entertaining: Tips For a Fall Garden Party

Fri, Aug 20, 2010

Tips for organizing the perfect fall garden party. Entertain in your garden with style.

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Gay and Lesbian Relationship Matters : In Search of Love and Self

The Benefits of Being in Love

The Benefits of Being in Love

by Paul McNeal

Sun, Aug 15, 2010

In this crazy mixed up world we live in, where the divorce rate is so high, one might ask themselves, Why get into a relationship? It’s like entering the military during a war! Why would anyone do that?!

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Why Can't I Walk Away?

Why Can't I Walk Away?

by Kellie Lee Owen

Thu, Aug 19, 2010

No matter who ends a relationship, such separations always affect you in good and bad ways. The question now is whether you're still in love or just jealous.

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What Else to Think About

JUST IN! NEW CREDIT CARD RULES ALL PHASED IN

JUST IN! NEW CREDIT CARD RULES ALL PHASED IN

Fri, Aug 27, 2010

The rules that go into action also affect gift cards.

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Why Gays and Lesbians Marry Straight Spouses

Why Gays and Lesbians Marry Straight Spouses

by Patricia Cheney

Mon, Aug 23, 2010

So, why do we do it? For what reasons do so many gays and lesbians get married to those of the opposite sex? A reflection on why gays and lesbians continue to choose heterosexual marriage as a life option.

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Costs are a barrier to lesbian couples conceiving, study finds

Costs are a barrier to lesbian couples conceiving, study finds

Sun, Aug 22, 2010

Research Doctor Petra Nordqvist from the University of Manchester, UK, believes her study of lesbian parents indicates growing financial barriers to reaching their family goals.

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