Gay Men and Looking Good
Mon, Apr 30, 2012
“Gay men only care what you look like”. “They just want to sleep with you—they don’t want to be your friend”.
Mon, Apr 30, 2012
“Gay men only care what you look like”. “They just want to sleep with you—they don’t want to be your friend”.
Wed, Feb 29, 2012
Author, artist, and out gay retired judge Dermot Meagher has written a gay mystery novel full of Italian bears and ruddy Irishmen.
Sat, Dec 31, 2011
Sexy gay soldiers, or just attracted to men in uniform?
Wed, Nov 30, 2011
African American men have a 60% higher risk of developing prostate cancer than Caucasian men.
Wed, Nov 30, 2011
An eight-day white-water rafting, hiking, and camping all-gay Grand Canyon tour that will change your life.
Mon, Oct 31, 2011
Some advice about graceful aging for gay men in midlife.
Mon, Oct 31, 2011
More and more gay people are breaking free from the social norms as they engage in interracial gay dating.
Sat, Oct 01, 2011
Bullying is not unique to children. One can argue that bullying is now a part of our politics, accepted, encouraged... and detrimental.
Fri, Sep 30, 2011
David and Michael, an adventurous couple, share their story with us while on a gay men's tour of the Grand Canyon.
Wed, Aug 31, 2011
"Gawking" is all well and good if you're single and available, but what happens if you're already in a relationship with someone?
Sun, Jul 31, 2011
The appeal of good health is more than the view of your body.
Fri, Jul 01, 2011
Having a monogamous relationship is not a realistic goal for all couples, says Larry.
Thu, Jun 30, 2011
Midlife implies much just in its name: Mid, meaning equidistant between two points, and Life, the entire experience of being.
Tue, May 31, 2011
Gay men are people, too. Just like any other human being, gay men have needs and desires.
Sun, May 01, 2011
Due to growing up in a homophobic society, most gay men as teenagers had to keep their sexuality hidden for fear of social backlash and further damage to their already shaky self-image.
Sat, Apr 30, 2011
Advocate contributor Jimmy Nguyen takes a look at racial lookism and explains why he thinks the gay rainbow needs to embrace more colors.
Fri, Apr 01, 2011
How to Have an Open Relationship Without Hurt Feelings by Ken Howard
Thu, Mar 31, 2011
Greg spoke with a guy who claimed that finding love is too hard. Perhaps the problem is where and how the search is occurring.
Tue, Mar 01, 2011
When sex begins to interfere with your daily life, becomes a preoccupation to the point that you’re distracted from life tasks, or controls your behavior instead of you “being in the driver’s seat,” these are indicators that there may be an addiction at play.
Mon, Feb 28, 2011
I am married to a mama's boy. I must admit that my husband takes very good care of home and nothing is being neglected. What is a girl to do?
Tue, Feb 01, 2011
You found your Mr. Right! So now what?! Here are 8 tips for increasing the success of your relationship.
Mon, Jan 31, 2011
Jamal is moving from thinking about "What Gay Men Want" to answering the questions gay men ask. So here's your chance to "Ask Jamal."
Wed, Dec 01, 2010
So previously I talked about “All the good ones are miserably taken”. This month a subject was thrown my way and at first I thought it would be easy to write about. But, now I can see this is not at all as easy as I thought. Is Young Sex More Interesting than Commitment?
Wed, Nov 24, 2010
Assuming YOU ARE the right one, the next question is whether there really are ways for you to know if HE IS the right one.
Mon, Nov 01, 2010
Last month I bitched -- I mean, talked -- about being left alone in our thirties, and if you are here, you are back to see what I meant when I was saying all the good ones are miserably taken. Now just because you are reading this, that does not guarantee that you are one of the good ones miserably taken.
Wed, Oct 20, 2010
I cannot take any more. We have been together for six years and even did a commitment ceremony last year to help us stop fighting, but for the last two years or so, it is one big long fight.
Fri, Oct 01, 2010
This blog is a little different from what I usually like to bitch (talk) about. As I talk with others in my age bracket (I’ll be 33 soon), I find I’m not alone. There is a form of age discrimination in the community that leaves us 30-somethings high and dry and alone, and it's pissing me off.
Sat, Sep 25, 2010
"For Gay Men Only" was one of the most popular sections of 10,000 Couples' first year. No doubt this "Halloween" observation will create its own list in the new year.
Wed, Sep 01, 2010
I never like to view myself as an "us versus them" kind of guy. However, when I look at my heterosexual counterparts, I see some things that are missing from me.
Tue, Aug 31, 2010
Marriage is a contract between you and your partner. If you have both agreed to monogamy, then any violation is considered a breach of that contract.
Sun, Aug 01, 2010
People will only see you for what you portray to them. Thinking your ass or your penis is your best asset and having it as your main picture to your profile is all a person will see you for.
Sat, Jul 24, 2010
Romancing your partner can be as simple as a pizza and a walk, or as complicated as finding ten dancing girls for an orgy....X
Wed, Jun 23, 2010
Living with an HIV-Positive partner can be challenging if you let your fear run your relationship.
Tue, May 25, 2010
Sometimes our partners drive us to near insanity. You feel as though this is the very last thing you can take before you have to be committed, either for being certifiable or for murder.
Sat, Feb 27, 2010
What's going on inside you to attract men who are not up to your standards?
Mon, Jan 18, 2010
I have a feeling that you're one of the most loving and giving guys someone could ever meet.
Fri, Jan 01, 2010
Here are 10 things gay couples can teach other couples about sexual monogamy versus non-monogamy