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Lesbian Life Focus Archive
Grown-Up Bullies: A Lesbian's Perspective on Emotional Abuse
Sun, Apr 01, 2012
Emotional abuse is one of the most common abuses found between women, especially in lesbian relationships.
The Lesbian Friendship-vs.-Love Trap
Sun, Apr 01, 2012
Lesbians, if you notice that things have gradually, or suddenly, "cooled down" between you and your woman, there's a way you can bring back the fire.
ATTRACTION: How it works for women and how to create it and keep it going
Wed, Feb 29, 2012
If a woman feels ATTRACTION for another woman, on a deep emotional level BEYOND PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, then nothing else really matters.
Lesbian Life Focus: How to Protect Your Heart Without Putting Up Walls
Tue, Jan 31, 2012
I want you to start swaying to the beat of your heart...
An "Opposites Attract" Theory for Lesbians
Sat, Dec 31, 2011
Technically, it’s true: Polar opposites do indeed attract.
Lesbian Jealousy: How Much Is Too Much?
Sat, Dec 31, 2011
Every emotion has a purpose. Whether it serves a good purpose or not is up to you.
Keeping the Spice in Your Lesbian Relationship
Thu, Dec 01, 2011
Each of these ideas only takes a few seconds from your day...
The "L" in Love vs Lust in Lesbian Relationships
Thu, Dec 01, 2011
A "perfect" love is where you are both working to keep the passion and are involved in each other, not just the immediate gratification.
When Your Lesbian Relationship Is Losing That Forever Feeling
Mon, Oct 31, 2011
How do you know if you should give up or keep fighting for what you believe in?
What to Do When the Good Is Going Bad
Wed, Aug 31, 2011
Some of the signs that your perfect "Butch" world is about to go up in smoke...
A Lesbian Infatuation - Or Is It Love?
Mon, Aug 01, 2011
How can we avoid this vicious circle of toxic love?
Look to Yourself for Love First
Fri, Jul 01, 2011
If you don't feel good about yourself, you'll almost automatically be attracted to and attract a woman who doesn't feel good about herself either.
Comparison: The Ex vs. The New Flame
Thu, Jun 30, 2011
The comparison isn’t always the cause of discomfort. Sometimes it is an unspoken indication of shaky trust.
Reconciliation in Lesbian Relationships
Tue, May 31, 2011
Relationship tips we all -- gay or straight, male or female -- can learn from.
Is She Serious or Just Stringing You Along?
Tue, May 31, 2011
If you're feeling frustrated about where your relationship is going, you're not alone.
STOP CHASING AFTER THAT WOMAN!
Sun, May 01, 2011
There is a way to get the type of attention that happens when she genuinely, and without pressure, feels so intrigued by and attracted to you that she can't HELP herself.
Abusers and Their Victims: Why Do You Go Back?
Sat, Apr 30, 2011
The mental and physical distress that the abuser puts the victim through is a very difficult thing for the victim to learn to deal with.
Lesbian Relationships: Boundaries Vs Barriers
Fri, Apr 01, 2011
Most experts agree that passionate love has a life expectancy of two to four years. So compatibility and mutual respect become increasingly important as your partnership progresses.
The Art of Natural Seduction for Lesbians
Thu, Mar 31, 2011
Not all seduction techniques work for all women. You have to really get to know the woman you want to seduce. Here are some tips.
STUD LESBIANS: The Evolution of a Revolution
Tue, Mar 01, 2011
Many continue to ask, "What is a Stud?" In my opinion, "Stud" is a complimentary term used loosely to describe a group of sexy, empowered, confident, strong women.
Acceptance (or Lack Thereof) of Difference in Small Communities
Tue, Mar 01, 2011
It is not considered socially acceptable to be different from the rest of our small-town society, so how do we go about telling those we love that we are gay?
Lesbian Infidelity: When Your Girl Is Cheating?
Mon, Feb 28, 2011
There are few situations more painful than hearing the person you are in love with and want, telling you they have had an affair.
A Valentine's Day Story
Mon, Jan 31, 2011
The alarm blares at 6:00 a.m. on February 14th. You wake up and look at your girlfriend sleeping peacefully next to you. What can you do to start this universal day of romance off right?
Rules for Dating in the Lesbian World
Mon, Jan 31, 2011
If the woman you date has respect for you, then she will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Can that happen with "the bad girl" you're attracted to?
Can Lesbians Get HIV?
Mon, Nov 22, 2010
Is one of the main benefits of having a lesbian relationship the lack of STDs that you're at risk of catching? Do lesbians need to practice safe sex, and does a lesbian need a confidential HIV test like a fish needs a bicycle?
Does Hanging Out with the Girls Always Need to Include My Girlfriend?
Sat, Nov 20, 2010
Your friends call you and ask you to go hang out with them. It sounds appealing, but you face the dilemma of having your girlfriend go with you or not.
Romantic Things for Couples to Do on a Rainy Day
Wed, Oct 20, 2010
The forecast said sunny with a slight chance of rain. You and your partner have made plans to spend all day outside, but ...
The Lesbian One-Hour Orgasm!
Wed, Oct 20, 2010
Is it possible? One hour? Can our bodies even do that?? It usually lasts only seconds or minutes. Maybe it is just an urban legend... Hmm...
3 Simple Tips to Strengthening Your Lesbian Relationship Bond
Sun, Sep 26, 2010
Strengthening a bond in a relationship happens as time goes on, but there are always ways to boost that bond in a faster amount of time.
Why Lesbians Switch Sexual Identities
Sat, Sep 25, 2010
Dr. Lisa Diamond, associate professor of Psychology and Gender Studies at the University of Utah, discusses what she learned about female sexual identity from her 13-year longitudinal study of gay women.
Intimate Lesbian Connection
Fri, Aug 27, 2010
High on love? Yes, it is wonderful and makes us do wonderfully stupid things -- like move in together after two weeks -- and, no, I am not pointing any fingers!
Lesbian Relationship Myths Versus Truths
Sat, Jul 24, 2010
Author Alex Karydi is on a mission to start a movement toward a healthier and more supportive community! There are some very good points made here. What do you think?
First-Time Lesbian Relationship
Thu, Jun 24, 2010
To ease the process of entering a lesbian relationship for the first time, read the following insights on some aspects you'll want to consider.
Tips for Saving a Lesbian Relationship
Thu, Jun 24, 2010
Experiencing a lesbian relationship can often be complicated.
Understanding Butch Lesbian Personals
Tue, May 25, 2010
There are two sides of lesbian personals, butch and femme. Do you have a comment to make about this?
Being in Love with a Married Woman
Sat, Apr 24, 2010
Many believe that a person cannot help or circumvent who they fall in love with.
Get a Woman Back
Thu, Apr 01, 2010
If you want to get a woman back, do not show her that you are crazy after her.
For Lesbians Only: Support Tips for Lesbians Married to Men
Fri, Feb 26, 2010
Can there be peace in this situation?
12 Signs Your Lesbian Relationship is Over
Fri, Jan 01, 2010
Is your lesbian relationship limping along? Are you not sure if you should stick it out or cash it in? Here are 12 things to look for to help make your decision.
For Lesbians Only: 10 Ways to Keep the Romance Alive
Mon, Nov 30, 2009
Rumor has it that those in lesbian relationships have sexual problems after the first few years, or sometimes sooner. Some say that it is because women are less interested in sex than men and that you need a man to keep the passion up.
For Lesbians Only: 10 Tips
Thu, Oct 29, 2009
Falling in love is wonderful, but it is really the easy part of any lesbian relationship. Here are ten tips for building a lasting lesbian relationship. How many do you practice?
For Lesbians Only: Cherry Bomb
Thu, Sep 17, 2009
Must see Cherry Bomb discussion of "Commitment Issues"
Lesbian Couple Family Building
Fri, Feb 27, 2009
Lesbian couple family building happens on many dimensions. Children from prior relationships, adoption, and IVF. Are trying to create a new family? PREGNANT ALREADY? Check out our fun widget.