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International Day Against Homophobia

International Day Against Homophobia

Tue, May 01, 2012

Looking at some of the changes we all can make for a better world without homophobia

LGBT Clergy, Ordained Ministry, Gay Marriage, and Me

LGBT Clergy, Ordained Ministry, Gay Marriage, and Me

Tue, May 01, 2012

Gay marriage has been legalized in New York, but I have yet to conduct a wedding ceremony.

If I were President of the United States

If I were President of the United States

Tue, Apr 10, 2012

Now that Rick Santorum has suspended his campaign I must admit to imagining what it would be like to be the President of the United States.

Pennsylvania Anti-LGBT Constitutional Amendment Scheduled for Tuesday

Pennsylvania Anti-LGBT Constitutional Amendment Scheduled for Tuesday

Mon, Mar 12, 2012

Same concept as before, but even meaner this time around. The anti-LGBT constitutional amendment on marriage is back and it is time to FIGHT!

JOIN 2012 Worldwide LGBTQI Civil Rights Marches

JOIN 2012 Worldwide LGBTQI Civil Rights Marches

Thu, Mar 08, 2012

Follow up Invitation for Participation in the 2012 Worldwide LGBTQI CIVIL RIGHTS MARCHES & NON-MARCH EVENTS for APRIL 21, 2012

There Are No Gay Jews

There Are No Gay Jews

Thu, Mar 01, 2012

Here’s the rub. Many of the most prominent pioneers of the LGBT community were Jewish.

What America's Same-Sex Couples and Our Families Gained in 2011

What America's Same-Sex Couples and Our Families Gained in 2011

Sun, Jan 01, 2012

From strides in immigration to progress toward marriage equality, 2011 was a year filled with positive change for same-sex couples and our families all over America.

Advancing 2012 Worldwide LGBT Civil Rights Marches

Advancing 2012 Worldwide LGBT Civil Rights Marches

Sun, Jan 01, 2012

A Call to Arms for everyone in, and supportive of, the LGBTQ community around the globe

Homosexuals… Dirty Words… and Me

Homosexuals… Dirty Words… and Me

Thu, Dec 01, 2011

With an essence that is as sweet as it is strong, Nhojj is the self-affirming “warrior” noted in his award-winning, chart-topping anthem and Gay Warrior song: "AMAZING GRACE" by Nhojj. VIDEO INCLUDED

Praying the Gay Away: "You Can't Have It Both Ways"

Praying the Gay Away: "You Can't Have It Both Ways"

Mon, Sep 26, 2011

At NAACP gathering, CNN Anchor Don Lemon and beloved comedienne, Wanda Sykes both say: I Used To Try To Pray The Gay Away

THUMBS UP Member News and Reviews

THUMBS UP Member News and Reviews

Sun, Jul 31, 2011

FINALLY OUT: Letting Go of Living Straight; WET: True Lesbian Sex Stories; and...

PERSONAL NEWS from Members

PERSONAL NEWS from Members

Mon, Jul 25, 2011

Campaign! Celebrate! Support! Encourage! Rejoice! Here are a few of interest.

What's Race Got to Do with Identity?

What's Race Got to Do with Identity?

Fri, Jul 01, 2011

Imagine if you can: I was asked in court by my employer's legal representative to decide if I was black or mixed-race – as in, make up my mind what I was.

HATE is so second-rate!

HATE is so second-rate!

Wed, Jun 01, 2011

from Max's 'View from the Bottom'

POLL: Are You Happy with Your Civil Union?

POLL: Are You Happy with Your Civil Union?

Sun, May 01, 2011

Civil unions for same-sex couples are picking up speed in states around the U.S. The fight for marriage equality is not lost, however.

HAVE YOUR SAY ON EQUALITY

HAVE YOUR SAY ON EQUALITY

Sun, May 01, 2011

Working for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Equality: Your Support Helps!

I Am the Face of Marriage Inequality…

I Am the Face of Marriage Inequality…

Wed, Apr 27, 2011

So, is gay marriage really that important in the UK? Here is "Max's 'View from the Bottom' Blog"

POLL: Do you lie about your same-sex marriage?

POLL: Do you lie about your same-sex marriage?

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

Do you consider yourself legally married even though it may not be legally recognized? Are you ready to take a stand and refuse to lie about it to the IRS?

Love of Elizabeth Taylor Will Overcome Hate

Love of Elizabeth Taylor Will Overcome Hate

Thu, Mar 24, 2011

Members of Westboro Baptist Church are planning to picket the funeral of Elizabeth Taylor. A 10,000 Couples contributor responds.

LGBT People Can’t Ask for Acceptance, then Not Give it Back

LGBT People Can’t Ask for Acceptance, then Not Give it Back

Thu, Mar 17, 2011

Tolerance not ignorance is the key to a successful society.

POLL: Will You Change Your Facebook Status?

POLL: Will You Change Your Facebook Status?

Tue, Mar 01, 2011

With the addition of gay and lesbian statuses on Facebook, will you change your status?

Take Action on Valentine's Day for Gay Marriage

Take Action on Valentine's Day for Gay Marriage

Sat, Feb 12, 2011

GAYAPOLIS: Marriage Equality USA and their partners are planning "Request Marriage" actions at county clerk offices all around the country for Valentine's Day

'Broken Spirit' In Loving Memory of Dijan Bruttus

'Broken Spirit' In Loving Memory of Dijan Bruttus

Wed, Feb 09, 2011

National Black HIV/AIDs Awareness Day 2011. Azaan Kamau's story of her brother's life and death is heart moving, provocative and deserves to be heard.

Iowan Zach Wahls Speaks About His Same-Sex Family

Iowan Zach Wahls Speaks About His Same-Sex Family

Sat, Feb 05, 2011

Gay Marriage "Family" Speech Goes Viral

POLL: What Is Your Valentine's Day Dream Date?

POLL: What Is Your Valentine's Day Dream Date?

Fri, Jan 28, 2011

We each have different desires and ideas of romanticism. What is your dream for Valentine's Day?

Tell us what you think about our 2011 site changes

Tell us what you think about our 2011 site changes

Tue, Jan 04, 2011

The year 2011 brought more changes to this e-magazine website. There are more to come but we want to know what you think so far.

POLL: Mistletoe and New Year’s Eve Kissing

POLL: Mistletoe and New Year’s Eve Kissing

Fri, Dec 31, 2010

Tradition states that those under the mistletoe deserve a kiss. At midnight on New Year’s Eve, you are also supposed to receive a traditional kiss. Do these kisses constitute cheating?

BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH

BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH

Tue, Nov 23, 2010

Six years ago, my Christmas season centered on the arrival of a baby -- our second child, due December 23. Is this the true meaning of Christmas?

POLL:  Are You Faithful to Your Partner?

POLL: Are You Faithful to Your Partner?

Tue, Nov 23, 2010

“'Tis one thing to be tempted, another thing to fall.” --William Shakespeare

Looking Beyond Our Own Noses to Save the LGBT Community

Looking Beyond Our Own Noses to Save the LGBT Community

Sat, Nov 13, 2010

To find solutions to the serious problems facing the LGBT community, and to be part of those solutions, we'd better understand the problems, their roots, their causes, and their consequences.

Meet Our 2010 iPad Winner

Meet Our 2010 iPad Winner

Thu, Nov 04, 2010

We are so pleased to introduce you to iPad winner, Ken McLeod.

BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH

BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH

Sun, Oct 31, 2010

REV. HEIDI MANN, AND THE HONORABLE JOHN BERRY have a range of personal observations to share. You will certainly want to know what they are.

POLL: Have You Been Bullied?

POLL: Have You Been Bullied?

Sat, Oct 30, 2010

Bullying is aggressive behavior that is intentional and involves an imbalance of power, and no one who is bullied seems to forget the injuries caused. HAVE YOU BEEN BULLIED?

From Being Bullied to Being an Advocate

From Being Bullied to Being an Advocate

Sat, Oct 30, 2010

As a child, I was a victim of bullying. As a teacher, I saw myself as someone who would save the children who were being bullied in school. As a parent, I saw one of my children become a victim of bullying in his school. For the sake of our future generations, we must all get involved in solving this epidemic.

Someone You Must Know: Gretchen and Kathryn Hamm

Someone You Must Know: Gretchen and Kathryn Hamm

Thu, Oct 28, 2010

A Mother – Daughter Dynamic Duo! A Mother's determination to make her daughter's same-sex wedding special launched a new career.

What will you do with your new iPad?

What will you do with your new iPad?

Sat, Oct 16, 2010

THE CONTEST IS OVER. CHECK BACK TO SEE WHO WINS!

POLL: IF YOU HAD THE CHOICE

POLL: IF YOU HAD THE CHOICE

Tue, Sep 21, 2010

If you had the choice to be gay or straight, what would you choose? I have clients who say they would not choose to be gay if given the choice. They would not necessarily choose to be straight, but they would choose not to be gay.

10,000 COUPLES GIVEAWAY iPAD

10,000 COUPLES GIVEAWAY iPAD

Thu, Aug 26, 2010

Celebrating Our 1st Anniversary with a Special Giveaway for e-magazine subscribers!

Special Comment: Black Pride and Prejudice

Special Comment: Black Pride and Prejudice

Mon, Aug 23, 2010

"It doesn't matter where you are in the world, we all face the same prejudices; it is just how we go about the fight which is different." --Kevin

BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH

BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH

Sun, Aug 22, 2010

PRIDE AND PREJUDICE: Darrell has a prescription for how to avoid it.

TOGETHER WE STAND: Richard and Luis Vieira Rise Above Anti-Gay Attack

TOGETHER WE STAND: Richard and Luis Vieira Rise Above Anti-Gay Attack

Sun, Aug 22, 2010

The letter I received from Richard Vieira began this way; “I wanted to share something with your magazine readers. It was a bad thing and wrong that happened to me and my husband Luis in the beginning of July. We were the victims of a hate crime here in Staten Island, NY. I suffered some injuries, luckily Luis didn’t." Research shows that people who have not been the victim of a violent crime may have a hard time understanding the impact it has. We're certain your understanding will improve with their stories included here. Yes, Richard and Luis were victimized by so-called thugs, but they are not victims. Not now.

POLL: What kind of federal recognition is most important for same-sex couples?

POLL: What kind of federal recognition is most important for same-sex couples?

Thu, Aug 12, 2010

As the debate rages, we wanted to see how our 10,000 Couples readers feel about "marriage" versus "civil partnership."

Poll: Does God have a position on same-sex marriage??

Poll: Does God have a position on same-sex marriage??

Sat, Jul 31, 2010

The original question, "Is God Your Daddy?", I read in USA Today. Really? I thought. Is that really the question we should be asking people? You may be interested in the findings.

Bloggers of the Month

Bloggers of the Month

Fri, Jul 30, 2010

Can the Church Be an Obstacle to Faithful Parenting?

International Couples and Gay Marriage

International Couples and Gay Marriage

Mon, Jul 26, 2010

Some reflections of life in an international relationship and why happiness in that relationship precipitated a move outside the country.

'IDOL' Speculation

'IDOL' Speculation

Mon, Jul 26, 2010

From Clay to Adam, is "American Idol" coming out?
Late Breaking: Lawsuit served, Ellen quits, Nigel acts up, and Joe comes out...

ACLU Report: Constance's School Blinked

ACLU Report: Constance's School Blinked

Tue, Jul 20, 2010

After getting an initial ruling from the federal judge that the school district had violated Constance’s free speech rights, the ACLU pressed ahead with a lawsuit and here is what happened.

Bloggers of the Month

Bloggers of the Month

Thu, Jul 08, 2010

Pride Weekend Across the Country and Federal Court Findings

Comment: Beyond gay and straight

Comment: Beyond gay and straight

Thu, Jul 08, 2010

By Peter Tatchell • July 6, 2010 -- Many liberal-minded heterosexuals reacted with horror when GLF declared: “2-4-6-8! Gay is just as good as straight!”

Bob's Independence Day

Bob's Independence Day

Tue, Jun 22, 2010

The author reflects on the meaning of our country's Independence Day in connection with his own freedom (or lack thereof) to be who he truly is. What would "liberty and justice for ALL" really look like?

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