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Discrimination on the Job: No One Likes Me 'Cause I’m Gay

Discrimination on the Job: No One Likes Me 'Cause I’m Gay

Tue, May 01, 2012

"I regret telling anyone that I’m a fag. I never should have done it."

Say It Nice

Say It Nice

Sat, Mar 31, 2012

You never have the “right” to hurt, even if you have been hurt.

No Lover on Valentine's Day?

No Lover on Valentine's Day?

Wed, Feb 01, 2012

Celebrate V Day like a crazy person!

Believing in Miracles

Believing in Miracles

Sun, Jan 01, 2012

Do you believe in miracles? Are you scheduled for a miracle in 2012?

Gay and Lesbian Couples: Be Better

Gay and Lesbian Couples: Be Better

Sun, Jan 01, 2012

Encouraging gay and lesbian couples to not only recognize that “It gets better” but to be better

A Walk Down Memory Lane

A Walk Down Memory Lane

Thu, Dec 01, 2011

Things that couples do to keep that initial excitement alive and well

Learning and Living the True Meaning of Christmas

Learning and Living the True Meaning of Christmas

Thu, Dec 01, 2011

December incorporates celebrations and special days around the world, across faiths, and in diverse cultures, including the LGBT community. Is there one common element flowing across all of them?

Did I Really Just Say "No"?

Did I Really Just Say "No"?

Thu, Dec 01, 2011

If the Universe responds to your thoughts and feelings, what are you telling it you want more of?

What Do You Have to Be Grateful For?

What Do You Have to Be Grateful For?

Tue, Nov 01, 2011

Gratitude rituals can change your life.

Do You Know Grace?

Do You Know Grace?

Thu, Sep 01, 2011

In search of a life once again united with life and a self reconciled with self. Including "Amazing Grace" -- video by LeAnn Rimes

Want a Better Relationship? Practice This...

Want a Better Relationship? Practice This...

Mon, Aug 01, 2011

Are you aware and prepared to care for those around you? REALLY?

You ARE the Master of Your Life

You ARE the Master of Your Life

Mon, Aug 01, 2011

Do you know what you want? Really?

What is PRIDE?

What is PRIDE?

Wed, Jun 01, 2011

June means the beginning of the Gay Prides, but what exactly does Gay Pride mean?

Becoming a Better You

Becoming a Better You

Wed, Jun 01, 2011

Are you becoming the person the person you're looking for is looking for?

Because YOU Loved Me

Because YOU Loved Me

Sun, May 01, 2011

Can you relate to Celine Dion when she says "I’m everything I am because you loved me"? Read and listen.

Madonna Disagrees with Timbaland

Madonna Disagrees with Timbaland

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

Is it ever too late to apologize?

The Perfect Mate for Same-Sex Couples

The Perfect Mate for Same-Sex Couples

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

What is the problem, your mate or your ambitions? Learn to love your mate for who she is instead of who you thought you wanted her to be.

Learn to Love Unconditionally

Learn to Love Unconditionally

Tue, Mar 01, 2011

Learning to love unconditionally requires you to first love yourself in the way in which you wish to be loved.

Two Is Better Than One?!

Two Is Better Than One?!

Sat, Feb 26, 2011

What do a King of Jerusalem, Boys Like Girls (BLG), Taylor Swift, and Ricky Martin have in common?

What Happens When You Feel Stuck

What Happens When You Feel Stuck

Mon, Jan 31, 2011

Throughout our lives, we will encounter problems which appear to have no solution. So, what can you do as a free-thinking, positive-focused individual?

Love Is in the Air... or Is It?

Love Is in the Air... or Is It?

Mon, Jan 31, 2011

This month brings a day when love is talked about more than any other time, but what is love -- really?

Tis the Season of Hope . . .

Tis the Season of Hope . . .

Fri, Nov 12, 2010

The holidays bring many of us closer to our families and mates. They offer us a sense of belonging and security. However, for some, it is a season to be endured rather than celebrated. It is a season of loneliness and depression.

LUCKY

LUCKY

Tue, Oct 26, 2010

A short story of love and hope by our budding author

What Is Love?

What Is Love?

Sun, Oct 24, 2010

Love is not expressed through nor experienced by the mind. Love comes directly from the heart.

Being in Love with Your Best Friend

Being in Love with Your Best Friend

Sun, Oct 24, 2010

“The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.”

Coming Out in Business

Coming Out in Business

Thu, Oct 21, 2010

VIDEO: Ian Reisner shares his experience

Timing or Just Lucky?

Timing or Just Lucky?

Tue, Sep 28, 2010

It appears today that more and more people are trying to find love by signing up for websites. Are you having any luck?

Why Can't I Walk Away?

Why Can't I Walk Away?

Thu, Aug 19, 2010

No matter who ends a relationship, such separations always affect you in good and bad ways. The question now is whether you're still in love or just jealous.

The Benefits of Being in Love

The Benefits of Being in Love

Sun, Aug 15, 2010

In this crazy mixed up world we live in, where the divorce rate is so high, one might ask themselves, Why get into a relationship? It’s like entering the military during a war! Why would anyone do that?!

Love, Trust, and Respect

Love, Trust, and Respect

Fri, Jul 30, 2010

What compels two people from different backgrounds to be willing to commit their lives to each other?

Finding Mr./Ms. Right

Finding Mr./Ms. Right

Sun, Jul 25, 2010

Having trouble finding Mr. or Ms. Right? It might have to do with how you think.

Authenticity and the Gay Identity

Authenticity and the Gay Identity

Fri, Jun 25, 2010

Exploring courage and integrity in the process of acknowledging their identity.

Working the Laws of Attraction

Working the Laws of Attraction

Wed, Jun 23, 2010

Many of you have been consciously working the Laws of Attraction, while others allow the Laws to rule them.

Find Your Soulmate With Online Lesbian Personals

Find Your Soulmate With Online Lesbian Personals

Mon, May 17, 2010

To find the person we truly connect with and want to share our lives with.

COMING OUT STORIES: Jeff from Minnessota

COMING OUT STORIES: Jeff from Minnessota

Thu, Dec 31, 2009

Each New Year many of us vow to do things differently. In 2010 some of you are vowing to come out to family and friends. Here is Jeff’s story.

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