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Delena Wilkerson, Publisher

Delena Wilkerson, Publisher

Delena is the publisher and editor of 10,000 Couples magazine. Over the past 25 years Delena has published many articles, edited a national newsletter, and been both author and editor of several how-to books on financial management for nonprofits.  Some of these experiences might even help with this latest venture.  For certain, her experiences at the helm of a local nonprofit organization taught her how to get the job done with minimal resources.  She is a graduate of Livingstone College in North Carolina and the University of Chicago's School of Social Service Administration.  Delena currently lives in Oak Park, IL with her spouse and son, cat and koi.

OCTOBER ANNIVERSARIES 2009

OCTOBER ANNIVERSARIES 2009

Thu, Oct 01, 2009

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! Michael Feinstein & Terrence Flannery, together 12 years. To see the full list of this month's anniversary celebrants you must be a subscriber.

Mother in-Law Day for Same-Sex Couples

Mother in-Law Day for Same-Sex Couples

Thu, Oct 01, 2009

There's more to marriage equality than meets the eye.

Someone You Must Know: Kanako Otsuji

Someone You Must Know: Kanako Otsuji

Thu, Oct 01, 2009

Kanako Otsuji was the first openly homosexual politician in Japan. Do know someone the rest of us should know about? Send in your nominations today to editor@joined-together.net.

Someone You Must Know: Col. Grethe Cammermeyer, RN, Ph.D

Someone You Must Know: Col. Grethe Cammermeyer, RN, Ph.D

Thu, Feb 25, 2010

March is women's history month, and we couldn't think of many women we wanted you to know more than Margarethe "Grethe" Cammermeyer. Make that Colonel Cammermeyer.

Transgendered Day of Remembrance

Transgendered Day of Remembrance

Sat, Oct 31, 2009

This article is the result of a generous and enlightening interview with Connor Maddocks, the hardworking Facilities Manager for The Center, San Diego's LGBT Community Center and Chair, of this year's program in honor of the transgendered people killed by hate this and every year.

Same-sex Couples Count

Same-sex Couples Count

Wed, Sep 30, 2009

The Census Bureau will release raw data from the 2010 census for same sex couples for the first time. Will it give us a true count? What box should unmarried same sex couples check?

I Am the Face of Marriage Equality: Alex and Trevor

I Am the Face of Marriage Equality: Alex and Trevor

Mon, Feb 22, 2010

Merging Family Values Create a Valued Family

Interview with Lt. Daniel Choi

Interview with Lt. Daniel Choi

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Veterans Day is an annual American holiday honoring military veterans for their service and their sacrifices. In honor of our LGBT soldiers and vets, 10,000 Couples Publisher Delena Wilkerson spent time with US Army First Lieutenant Daniel Choi and his partner, Matthew Kinsey. They were very generous with their time and as a result we have a two part series. Part 1 focuses on Lt. Choi, his experiences as a young soldier, his work on behalf of LGBT soldiers who risk their lives on America's behalf, and his thoughts about our fight for equality. Part 2 will focus on Matthew's experiences as the partner of an Iraqi vet living under Don't Ask Don't Tell, and his advice for other spouses.

Someone You Must Know: Johanna Sigurdardottir

Someone You Must Know: Johanna Sigurdardottir

Thu, Oct 29, 2009

Johanna Sigurdardottir, the world's first openly gay Prime Minister, is a force to be reckoned with. Do YOU know someone the rest of us should know about? Send in your nominations today to editor@joined-together.net.

Ending Employment Discrimination in America

Ending Employment Discrimination in America

Fri, Nov 06, 2009

Familiar political distortions and myths continue being spread, notably by adversaries painting the LGBT community as rich elites.

Anna and Cory: An Everyday LGBT Family

Anna and Cory: An Everyday LGBT Family

Mon, Nov 30, 2009

Family making in the LGBT community takes many forms. Some forced by societal discrimination. Most by acceptance of our intrinsic value as loving human beings. Anna and Cory have made a fun and loving family home against a multitude of odds.

Dan Choi and Matthew Kinsey: The Story Continues

Dan Choi and Matthew Kinsey: The Story Continues

Mon, Nov 30, 2009

In November we went on a journey with First Lieutenant Daniel Choi and his struggle to live within the restrictions of America’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy. This month we look at the other side of military life with Matthew Kinsey, the very stylish Gucci executive and Choi’s first love.

TV Superstar Realtor Madison Hildebrand Joins World’s Most Popular LGBT Real Estate Network

TV Superstar Realtor Madison Hildebrand Joins World’s Most Popular LGBT Real Estate Network

Thu, Dec 31, 2009

Fascinating Reality TV Realtor Madison Hildebrand now has his own dedicated professional profile page on the popular site GayRealEstate.com, where he offers real estate services to those interested in buying or selling in and around his hometown of Malibu, California.

Someone You Must Know: Aiyi'nah Ford

Someone You Must Know: Aiyi'nah Ford

Thu, Dec 31, 2009

Aiyi-nah Ford is not only someone to know, she is someone to watch.

North Carolina in the Fight for Marriage Equality
JANUARY ANNIVERSARIES 2010

JANUARY ANNIVERSARIES 2010

Fri, Jan 01, 2010

HAPPY JANUARY ANNIVERSARIES ALL!!

"BillyBob": A Life-Sustaining Love

"BillyBob": A Life-Sustaining Love

Fri, Jan 01, 2010

During the Thanksgiving holiday I was privileged to be invited into the home of Billy Muncy and Bob Hudson near High Point, North Carolina. Their story inspires. Their lives are real. Their love for each other, their family, and their faith is sustaining.

I Am the Face of Marriage Equality: Dion and Benjamin

I Am the Face of Marriage Equality: Dion and Benjamin

Sat, Jan 30, 2010

Each month we profile a couple who exemplifies the great diversity of same gender marriage, legal or not, around the world. This month we visit with Dion Wong and Benjamin Aquino, Jr in California.

US Military LGB Estimates Updated

US Military LGB Estimates Updated

Wed, Jan 27, 2010

Data from the US Census Bureau suggest that an estimated 66,000 LGB men and women are serving in the US military

Same Sex Couples Must Be Counted in 2010

Same Sex Couples Must Be Counted in 2010

Fri, Feb 26, 2010

Since 1990, when the census added the “unmarried partner” designation on its form, LGBT people in same-sex relationships have provided the first visible record of our partnerships in the history of our nation. -- Our Families Count

Queer and Now

Queer and Now

Fri, Feb 26, 2010

Is there an appreciable difference between "bullies" and "haters"?

Out of the Closet with Robert Taylor and Ted Nowick

Out of the Closet with Robert Taylor and Ted Nowick

Mon, Sep 27, 2010

From Army Intelligence and Corporate Finance to the Good Life. This is an engaging interview with two phenomenal men who share with 10,000 Couples their coming-out and growing-strong stories, with a little wisdom thrown in for good measure.

JULY Anniversaries 2010

JULY Anniversaries 2010

Wed, Jun 30, 2010

Join us in celebrating the love and joy of all our July Anniversary Couples.

LGBT Holding $743 Billion in Power

LGBT Holding $743 Billion in Power

Tue, Jul 20, 2010

New Analysis of LGBT buying power by Witeck-Combs Communications and Packaged Facts

AUGUST ANNIVERSARIES 2010

AUGUST ANNIVERSARIES 2010

Fri, Jul 23, 2010

Lin and Siobhan celebrate August 3. Join us in celebrating the love and joy of all our AUGUST Anniversary Couples.

Poll: Does God have a position on same-sex marriage??

Poll: Does God have a position on same-sex marriage??

Sat, Jul 31, 2010

The original question, "Is God Your Daddy?", I read in USA Today. Really? I thought. Is that really the question we should be asking people? You may be interested in the findings.

Only One-in-Five Californians Say Proposition 8 ‘Good Thing’

Only One-in-Five Californians Say Proposition 8 ‘Good Thing’

Tue, Jul 20, 2010

Comprehensive New Poll Examining Religious Based Attitudes on Same-Sex Marriage

Global Interest in Same-Sex Consumers’ Buying Power  May Promote Marriage Equality

Global Interest in Same-Sex Consumers’ Buying Power May Promote Marriage Equality

Tue, Aug 03, 2010

Marketers who openly support same-sex marriage or same-sex couples in their advertising are likely to benefit from the loyalty of the LGBT community even when others fluctuate.

POLL: What kind of federal recognition is most important for same-sex couples?

POLL: What kind of federal recognition is most important for same-sex couples?

Thu, Aug 12, 2010

As the debate rages, we wanted to see how our 10,000 Couples readers feel about "marriage" versus "civil partnership."

SEPTEMBER ANNIVERSARIES 2010

SEPTEMBER ANNIVERSARIES 2010

Sat, Aug 14, 2010

Daniel and Steve are celebrating their anniversary September 2. Join us in celebrating the love and joy of all our SEPTEMBER Anniversary Couples.

TOGETHER WE STAND: Richard and Luis Vieira Rise Above Anti-Gay Attack

TOGETHER WE STAND: Richard and Luis Vieira Rise Above Anti-Gay Attack

Sun, Aug 22, 2010

The letter I received from Richard Vieira began this way; “I wanted to share something with your magazine readers. It was a bad thing and wrong that happened to me and my husband Luis in the beginning of July. We were the victims of a hate crime here in Staten Island, NY. I suffered some injuries, luckily Luis didn’t." Research shows that people who have not been the victim of a violent crime may have a hard time understanding the impact it has. We're certain your understanding will improve with their stories included here. Yes, Richard and Luis were victimized by so-called thugs, but they are not victims. Not now.

10,000 COUPLES GIVEAWAY iPAD

10,000 COUPLES GIVEAWAY iPAD

Thu, Aug 26, 2010

Celebrating Our 1st Anniversary with a Special Giveaway for e-magazine subscribers!

OCTOBER ANNIVERSARIES 2010

OCTOBER ANNIVERSARIES 2010

Tue, Sep 21, 2010

"xoxo" to WANDA SYKES and wife Alexandra who celebrate their 2nd wedding anniversary October 25. Will their beautiful children party with them?

What will you do with your new iPad?

What will you do with your new iPad?

Sat, Oct 16, 2010

THE CONTEST IS OVER. CHECK BACK TO SEE WHO WINS!

NOVEMBER Anniversaries 2010

NOVEMBER Anniversaries 2010

Sun, Oct 24, 2010

We're featuring Jess and Tammy this November. Sort of, LOL!

Lesbian and Gay Male Life Experiences

Lesbian and Gay Male Life Experiences

Fri, Oct 29, 2010

A call to help psychologists better understand the unique life experiences of lesbians and gay men.

Meet Our 2010 iPad Winner

Meet Our 2010 iPad Winner

Thu, Nov 04, 2010

We are so pleased to introduce you to iPad winner, Ken McLeod.

Same-Sex Couples Outpacing Population Growth

Same-Sex Couples Outpacing Population Growth

Thu, Nov 04, 2010

According to the Williams Institute, the number of same-sex couples in the US rose 3% in 2009 over 2008. However the change in political leadership may undue other progress.

DECEMBER Anniversaries 2010

DECEMBER Anniversaries 2010

Thu, Nov 25, 2010

How wonderful to congratulate JEN AND MARGO and all the others. Christmas is clearly a merry time for love.

JANUARY Anniversaries 2011

JANUARY Anniversaries 2011

Fri, Dec 31, 2010

See ALAN CUMMING AND GRANT SHAFFER and all the other gay and lesbian couples with anniversaries this month!

Reviewing What Mattered to Gay and Lesbian Couples in 2010

Reviewing What Mattered to Gay and Lesbian Couples in 2010

Fri, Dec 31, 2010

Reflecting on some of the events of 2010 that proved significant to the lives of same-sex couples.

Review Worldwide Same-Sex Vows and Unions from 2010

Review Worldwide Same-Sex Vows and Unions from 2010

Sat, Jan 01, 2011

We're remembering some booming gay and lesbian weddings, as well as some heart-breaking separations, in recognition of all it means to live.

Tell us what you think about our 2011 site changes

Tell us what you think about our 2011 site changes

Tue, Jan 04, 2011

The year 2011 brought more changes to this e-magazine website. There are more to come but we want to know what you think so far.

Same-Sex Couples Still More Hopeful About Personal Finances and U. S. Economy

Same-Sex Couples Still More Hopeful About Personal Finances and U. S. Economy

Tue, Jan 18, 2011

Even without legal, financial, marital, employment, and other laws and policies that protect equality for same-sex couples and families, we are more hopeful about the U. S. economy than our heterosexual counterparts.

Black Gay Pride 2011

Black Gay Pride 2011

Mon, Jan 31, 2011

Black History Month recognition of Bayard Rustin seen here with partner Walter Naegle

FEBRUARY Anniversaries 2011

FEBRUARY Anniversaries 2011

Tue, Feb 01, 2011

Celebrate with Armistead Maupin and Christopher Turner, along with all the other wonderful same-sex couples with anniversaries this month.

First of IL Civil Union Ceremonies Celebrate Gay Pride and Lesbian Joy

First of IL Civil Union Ceremonies Celebrate Gay Pride and Lesbian Joy

Thu, Jun 02, 2011

Six contest winners become first same-sex couples to exchange vows as Illinois implements Civil Union Law. Includes short ceremony montage.

Civil Unions in Colorado Would Boost State Budget by Nearly $5 Million

Civil Unions in Colorado Would Boost State Budget by Nearly $5 Million

Wed, Feb 16, 2011

A new research study by the Williams Institute shows that allowing same-sex and different-sex couples to enter civil unions in Colorado would boost the state budget by nearly $5 million over three years.

MARCH 2011 Anniversaries

MARCH 2011 Anniversaries

Tue, Mar 01, 2011

Celebrate with Elder Darlene Garner and Rev. Candy Holmes, along with all the other wonderful same-sex couples with anniversaries this month.

THUMBS UP Member News and Reviews

THUMBS UP Member News and Reviews

Sun, Jul 31, 2011

FINALLY OUT: Letting Go of Living Straight; WET: True Lesbian Sex Stories; and...

10thousandCouples' Featured Same-Sex Marriages in 2010

10thousandCouples' Featured Same-Sex Marriages in 2010

Sat, Jan 01, 2011

Who shared there commitment ceremonies with 10thousandCouples last year?

Alix Olson and Martha Popp Re-Married, Again

Alix Olson and Martha Popp Re-Married, Again

Sat, May 01, 2010

Alix, 62 and Martha Popp Olson, 66 have lived a long and secure life together in Madison, Wisconsin. They have been together 28 years and held “their most resent ceremony in May 2010.

Dion and Benjamin Recommit

Dion and Benjamin Recommit

Thu, Jul 01, 2010

Dion Wong, 66 and Benjamin Aquino, Jr., 58 share homes in San Francisco & Richmond, California. They have been together since 1995 and held a Re-commitment Ceremony June 19, 2010.

Jasz and Yvon, A Canadian Celebration

Jasz and Yvon, A Canadian Celebration

Sun, Aug 01, 2010

John (Jasz) Szlachetka, 45, and Yvon Wilson, share their family home in Canada with three of Jasz’s 4 children. They have been together since 2006 and were married in 2008.

Gregg Hierholzer and James, First in California Prison

Gregg Hierholzer and James, First in California Prison

Tue, Aug 31, 2010

James 33, and Gregg Hierholzer, 45, are in California. They have been together since 2006 and were married in 2008. There relationship is unique in significant ways.

Toni and Nekita Lotus Anderson Take A Road Trip

Toni and Nekita Lotus Anderson Take A Road Trip

Fri, Oct 01, 2010

Toni and Nekita drove 22 hours from Alabama to Vermont. They have been together since 2008 and were married April 24, 2010.

Lise Marie and May Liss Monsen, Worldwide Romance

Lise Marie and May Liss Monsen, Worldwide Romance

Sun, Oct 31, 2010

Lise-Marie, 29, and May Liss Monsen, 25, are from Haugesund, Norway. They have been together since 2007 and were married in 2010.

Dante Walkup and Mark Reed-Walkup Have Their Way

Dante Walkup and Mark Reed-Walkup Have Their Way

Wed, Dec 01, 2010

Texas based Mark Reed, 51 and Dante Walkup, 50 have been together since 2000 and held their highly publicized "Own Your Equality" wedding ceremony via Skype on October 10, 2010.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES APRIL 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES APRIL 2011

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

Each celebrating with the love of her life: Shelly and Kellie.

Civil Unions in Delaware Would Increase Business Activity

Civil Unions in Delaware Would Increase Business Activity

Fri, Mar 25, 2011

Continuing their trend of evaluating the economic impact of marriage equality in the U.S., state by state, the Williams Institute is now reporting on Delaware.

HRC, Courage Campaign Hot After NOM Education Fund

HRC, Courage Campaign Hot After NOM Education Fund

Thu, Oct 14, 2010

IRS complaint demonstrates that Ruth Institute, a project of the NOM Education Fund, has flagrantly violated federal tax law by intervening in political campaigns

Federal Judge rules Prop. 8 Unconstitutional

Federal Judge rules Prop. 8 Unconstitutional

Wed, Aug 04, 2010

In a landmark ruling released minutes ago in the case of Perry v. Schwarzenegger, U.S. District Court Judge Vaughn Walker has found that California's ban on marriage equality -- also known as Proposition 8 -- violates the 14th Amendment to the United States Constitution.

POLL: Do you lie about your same-sex marriage?

POLL: Do you lie about your same-sex marriage?

Fri, Apr 01, 2011

Do you consider yourself legally married even though it may not be legally recognized? Are you ready to take a stand and refuse to lie about it to the IRS?

Same-Sex Couple in the Lead of Crate and Barrel Wedding Contest

Same-Sex Couple in the Lead of Crate and Barrel Wedding Contest

Tue, Mar 29, 2011

Robbie and his finance, Allen are currently #2 in a long list of couples competing for the Crate and Barrel Ultimate Wedding contest this year.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES MAY 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES MAY 2011

Sun, May 01, 2011

From coast to coast, love is blooming for our May Anniversary couples

How Important Are You to Marriage Equality?

How Important Are You to Marriage Equality?

Sun, May 01, 2011

Marriage is not a privilege but a right, and educating the world starts with US!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES JUNE 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES JUNE 2011

Wed, Jun 01, 2011

With nearly 30 Inspiring Couples celebrating this month, there is lots of PRIDE!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES JULY 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES JULY 2011

Thu, Jun 30, 2011

Join us in celebrating the love and joy of all our July Anniversary Couples.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES AUGUST 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES AUGUST 2011

Mon, Aug 01, 2011

Join us in celebrating Richard and Luis Vieira and all the August Anniversary Couples.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES SEPTEMBER 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARIES SEPTEMBER 2011

Thu, Sep 01, 2011

CONGRATULATE September's 21 "Faces of Marriage Equality" ANNIVERSARY COUPLES!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Same Sex Couples!! October 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Same Sex Couples!! October 2011

Sat, Oct 01, 2011

As we celebrate the 2nd Anniversary of the 10,000 Couples e-mag and community this month, we're proud to feature David Hyde Pierce and Brian Hargrove, among the 24 beautiful, ordinary and extraordinary, inspiring GALLERY couples who joined us for their October Anniversaries.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Same-Sex Couples!! November 2011

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Same-Sex Couples!! November 2011

Tue, Nov 01, 2011

Holidays are doubly enhanced when shared with the family you love. Happy Anniversary, Jay and Treeva! Who else is celebrating?

Reflections Beyond Trayvon: From LGBTQ Mothers, Same-Sex Couples, and Equality Allies

Reflections Beyond Trayvon: From LGBTQ Mothers, Same-Sex Couples, and Equality Allies

Sun, Apr 01, 2012

"Don’t cry for Trayvon and don’t cry for my son and all the other young black men who face racism every day if you’re not willing to do something..."

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