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Michele O'Mara, LCSW

Michele O'Mara, LCSW

Michele is an Indianapolis, Indiana based gay relationship therapist offering gay and lesbian services nationally that are specifically tailored to the needs of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered persons.  Michele's style of life counseling & coaching is a blending of exploration, education, encouragement, support, guidance, and accountability.  The goal of life counseling & coaching is to create a forward moving momentum in your life that allows you to live according to your own hopes and dreams, while simultaneously furthering you toward the life you were designed to live. 

Michele is specially trained in relationship counseling and is proud of the success many same-sex couples have experienced with her gay relationship counseling and coaching.  Click here to contact Michele.

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Exploring Passion

Exploring Passion

Wed, Sep 30, 2009

Passion is a loaded topic for many couples. Some people spend their entire relationship grieving the passion they feel they are missing.

Being a Grown Up Gay or Lesbian

Being a Grown Up Gay or Lesbian

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Being a grown up gay or lesbian in relationship requires a shift in perspective. Our resident therapist Michele gives good advice.

Loving You Without Leaving Me

Loving You Without Leaving Me

Mon, Nov 30, 2009

"How can I balance being true to myself while pleasing my partner?" That's what we all want to know, isn't it? How can I be in a relationship without compromising who I AM?

Relationship Renewal

Relationship Renewal

Fri, Jan 01, 2010

Its a new year and everyone is thinking about resolutions, new beginnings, and new possibilities. Have you thought about Relationship Renewal? Michele has some advice to guide you through.

 "Coming Out" of Marriage

"Coming Out" of Marriage

Sun, Jan 31, 2010

Coming out is a challenging process, whether you are 15, 21, or 50. Coming out in the midst of a heterosexual relationship is super challenging. Take Michele's advice.

Michele's Advice: Ending Relationships

Michele's Advice: Ending Relationships

Sun, Feb 28, 2010

As I find is the case in life, you get what you give. It took very little to get Blue. I got very little from her.

Michele's Advice: We All Need Five Things

Michele's Advice: We All Need Five Things

Thu, Apr 01, 2010

My partner and I argue about spending time with each other. She works nights and sleeps during the day. I am starved for time.

Michele's Advice: Putting Up With Disrespect

Michele's Advice: Putting Up With Disrespect

Thu, Apr 29, 2010

Is there something to gain from letting your partner disrespect you?

Michele's Advice: Monogamy

Michele's Advice: Monogamy

Mon, May 24, 2010

Roughly fifty percent of gay male couples choose to be non-monogamous. Is this news to you?

Michele's Advice: I'm Not Sorry

Michele's Advice: I'm Not Sorry

Tue, Jun 22, 2010

Someone would bump into me while I was minding my own business, in my own space, and I’d instinctively respond with, “Oops, I’m sorry.”

Michele's Advice: Friend Turned Potential Lover

Michele's Advice: Friend Turned Potential Lover

Mon, Jul 26, 2010

I asked out my best friend last night. She said yes and we kissed for the first time.

Michele's Advice: She Left Me

Michele's Advice: She Left Me

Sun, Aug 15, 2010

My partner left me. My world feels like it’s spinning out of control...