Therapist: "What brings you in today?"

Love-Sick Lesbian (LSL): "I can't take it anymore...I love her so much but she plays with my heart..."

Therapist: "Tell me more about this love."

LSL: "It's been going on for years and I don't know how to get over it... I don't know if this is love or an obsession... or am I just crazy?"

Therapist: "Maybe it's all of the above... mixed in with a little Infatuation."

LSL: "Help me. Can you please help me get over her?"

Funny? It is not meant to be. Every day I get at least one email from a woman sharing this exact thought process. She is telling me in great detail about a woman -- sometimes even more than one -- she cannot let go of and has been holding onto for months, if not years. It's unimaginable the time and energy we put into our "unforgettable" loves. UNIMAGINABLE, not only in feelings and emotions, but sometimes sacrificing other relationships and financial goals.

By Alex Karydi

Alex is an Internationally Certified Drug and Alcohol Counselor that has been trained in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender LGBT related issues. "My intention is to start a movement towards a healthier and more supportive community! Where LGBTs can find each other, learn from one another, and build a stronger support system". Alex's contributions to 10,000 Couples are made available via ezinearticles.com. You can follow Alex on her Blog http://TheLesbianGuru.com! Or by Joining The Lesbian Revolution of Health & Love on http://Facebook.com/TheFemmeGuru