by Katrina Arango, Ph D.

If you're finding yourself feeling practically desperate because you are trying to get the attention of a woman you're already deep into a relationship with, or a new woman who you just KNOW likes you, you might be -- automatically and intuitively -- doing all the WRONG things. But it's not your fault. We lesbians treasure and adore women so much, we consider them to be like adored prizes that, no matter what we do or how "cool" we try to be, our emotions get caught up in when we're around HER.

Have you ever felt like everything would be great in your relationship if you could just really keep her attention? But you find yourself struggling with yourself about what to do and how to behave? Whether to run to meet her when she comes home or just say "Hi, how's your day?" Whether you should ignore her or invite her out? Give her a call or forget about her? Turn to her in bed and try to get something started again, or stay up sleepless? Where you start to feel like nothing you do is ever going to get you what you want, whether it be a new woman you've just seen or the woman you're with now who's been taking you for granted? Does it feel like it's just always going to be the same, and it's just too much hard work?

By Katrina Hobbs, Ph.D.

Katrina Hobbs, PhD in Holistic Sciences, known as "the lesbian love doctor," is a certified alternative therapy practitioner and best-selling author of 12 books on lesbian relationships, romance, and erotica. She is the founder and owner of The Girl Spot, her online magazine, which has been called "Like Cosmopolitan magazine for lesbians!"  She is also producing a series of books on various topics ranging from lesbian relationship advice to spirituality and health.

To view excerpts from her books or to purchase them, please visit her website: www.thelesbianbadgirl.webs.com and The Girl Spot magazine at http://www.thegirlspot.presspublisher.us and see what’s new!

Comments(6):

1. Fake Ph.D

   I believe it is a federal offence to falsely claim to have a Ph.D Please ask this author to substantiate her claim to this doctorate.

   Friday, March 23, 2012 Geraldine

2. From the Publisher

   Thank you for your concern Geraldine. We are looking into your claim.

   Friday, March 23, 2012 Delena

3. My response

   My credentials, which are valid, have been emailed to the appropriate individual. Any persons attempting to broadcast false information here or on any other public forum, due to personal spite, are at risk for being sued for slander, defamation of character or any other appropriate offense. Please cease and desist immediately or I will be forced to take legal action.

   Sunday, March 25, 2012 Katrina

4. Substantiate please

   Thank you Delena, My understanding is that a Doctorate is awarded openly so society can learn from the recipients research. It is my understanding that to gain this one has to have their research in a published form. When requested it is completely usual to quote the name of the University awarding such a high honor as well as acknowledging the research. Anyone who has undergone the many many years of study gaining this level naturally is extremely proud to advertise their area of speciality and the specific research that has gained this distinction. I think it is entirely reasonable to request this from your author. You are promoting them, so I feel the calibre of you website rests on the calibre of your "Experts". If there is no issue here why do we have such an inadequate and inappropriate answer?

   Saturday, March 31, 2012 Geraldine

5. Confused!

   So tell me who has the Ph.D Katrina Arango or Katrina Hobbs? I don't believe universities award doctorates to "pen names" and now after all this time we see Katrina Arango is a "pen name"?? Something is not right! I can't imagine any Ph.D recipient that has ever evaded these questions...just doesn't ring true. When will this be clarified? As a regular reader of this website I find this all most unsatifactory.

   Sunday, April 08, 2012 Geraldine

6. I just want to say that I really enjoy this author's articles and have purchased a couple of her books. To@ Geraldine sounds to me like this is something personal so like I said if you dont like her articles dont read them!

   Saturday, April 28, 2012 Tameka