When we are teens, we imagine the perfect mate.  We see them with Lucy Lawless’s boobs, Ricky Martin’s hair, Jason Statham’s muscles, Angelina’s lips.  We see them in our dreams where they bring us flowers, save us from our woes, buy us diamonds and houses and cars.  They hold us when we cry and they always say exactly the right thing.  They are the perfect mate.

By Kellie Lee Owen

Kellie  is a writer, an Energy Therapist and a work in progress.  She inspires her clients and readers to get really clear about their thinking.  "Our thinking creates our reality.  Think well, live well. "

Comments(2):

1. I agree :)

   Kellie - This is a great article and a good reminder as we look for and build relationships with our mates. I found this to be one of the most powerful statements you made in the article: " This is not about giving up your dreams, but learning to love and appreciate what you have." There is so much truth to that. Thanks!

   Saturday, April 02, 2011 Paul

2. Thanks for the reminder!

   Occasionally I have trouble seeing my girlfriend for who she is, so this article is a great shove back into reality! Thank you so much! <3

   Sunday, April 03, 2011 Claire