Is your New Year’s Resolution to get a mate? The perfect man/woman will have (Insert your list of Must Haves here).

Now go back and read that list. How many of your future mate’s “must haves” are on the list to make up for your deficiencies? A mate is supposed to complement you, not be a substitute for the things you must do to evolve as a human.

Is your list filled with superficialities? Of course we must be attracted to our mates, but do they really need to look like a perfect-haired Justin Bieber? Yes, we want them to be able to support themselves, but do they need Oprah’s money to do that? Smart is all-important, but might it be a bit much to want them to be Anderson Cooper?

By Kellie Lee Owen

Kellie  is a writer, an Energy Therapist and a work in progress.  She inspires her clients and readers to get really clear about their thinking.  "Our thinking creates our reality.  Think well, live well. "