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Interview with Lt. Daniel Choi

Interview with Lt. Daniel Choi

by Delena Wilkerson

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Veterans Day is an annual American holiday honoring military veterans for their service and their sacrifices. In honor of our LGBT soldiers and vets, 10,000 Couples Publisher Delena Wilkerson spent time with US Army First Lieutenant Daniel Choi and his partner, Matthew Kinsey. They were very generous with their time and as a result we have a two part series. Part 1 focuses on Lt. Choi, his experiences as a young soldier, his work on behalf of LGBT soldiers who risk their lives on America's behalf, and his thoughts about our fight for equality. Part 2 will focus on Matthew's experiences as the partner of an Iraqi vet living under Don't Ask Don't Tell, and his advice for other spouses.

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Welcome to September 2010!

There is a lot going on for same-sex couples these days, including international progress in the advance of marriage equality, growing support for the end of homophobia and racism of all kinds. There is also our day-to-day living that ranges from making our children feel safe in school to figuring out which home repairs we need to make. All of it, and much more, is addressed in this month's edition.

Also in this issue is information about the upcoming celebration of our first anniversary! You don't want to be left out! (HINT: If you're not yet a subscriber, this would be the ideal time to sign up!) WHO CAN WIN FREE iPAD?

Take your time perusing this issue; there is much to absorb and much to enjoy.

September's Days to consider --

US National Hispanic Heritage Month

US Labor Day 9/6

Rosh Hashanah 9/9

Grandparents Day 9/12

National Stepfamily Day 9/16

Yom Kippur 9/18

International Day of Peace 9/21

Start of Northern Hemisphere's Autumn 9/23

Native Americans Day 9/24

American Gold Star Mothers Day 9/26

  • Gay and Lesbian Weddings Worldwide

    Celebrating and Sharing 10,000 Gay and Lesbian Wedding Plans and Ceremonies

  • NOVEMBER ANNIVERSARIES

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY JESSI AND SARAH!! And to all the other couples with anniversaries this month. Did we miss your anniversary? Join the 10,000 Inspiring Couples Gallery and it won't happen again.

  • Can Money Buy Happiness?

    Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project listed eight tips for how money CAN buy happiness on her blog. Queercents financial guru Nina Smith, elaborates on Tip #2 which suggests couples should use money to end marital conflict.. What do you think?

  • A Love Story in Florida

    This 70-year love story from South Florida proves the strength of love.

  • Transgendered Day of Remembrance

    This article is the result of a generous and enlightening interview with Connor Maddocks, the hardworking Facilities Manager for The Center, San Diego's LGBT Community Center and Chair, of this year's program in honor of the transgendered people killed by hate this and every year.

  • Holiday Decorating on a Budget

    This month we're getting ready for the holidays with Colleen Lora of Columbus, Ohio. If you celebrate Christmas and financial constraints have you stressed; relax and let Colleen inspire your imagination with ideas that will look good AND protect your budget

Gay and Lesbian Relationship Matters

For Lesbians Only

For Lesbians Only

by Patricia Cheney

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Falling in love is wonderful, but it is really the easy part of any lesbian relationship. Here are ten tips for building a lasting lesbian relationship. How many do you practice?

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For Gay Men Only

For Gay Men Only

Thu, Oct 29, 2009

5 Simple Things Gay Partners Can Do That Can Make All the Difference

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Same Gender Vows and Unions

Anniversary Matters: Your Romantic Calendar

Anniversary Matters: Your Romantic Calendar

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Having trouble remembering all the special days in your relationship? Howard Earl suggests there are only seven you really have to know. Do you agree?

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In Pictures: Gay Couples Marry in the UK

In Pictures: Gay Couples Marry in the UK

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Featuring news from around the globe about progress made toward full recognition of our rights and intrinsic value in society. This month the news comes from around the United Kingdom.

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Gay Pride and Lesbian Joy

Personal Pride & Joy: Sandi & Deneil

Personal Pride & Joy: Sandi & Deneil

by Angela Minor

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

We're celebrating Sandi and Deneil this November in part because of Veterans Day and in part because they're such an inspiring couple. Many, many thanks to Sue Fulton, Communications Director with Knights Out for making the connections with Sandi, Deneil, Lt. Choi and Matthew.

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Until Death Do Us Part -- The Janice Langbehn Story

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

You are denied the right to hold the hand of the most important and loved person in your life as he or she is dying. How will you handle it?

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Living the Domestic Gay Life

Top 5 LGBT Cities for Huge Home Discounts

Top 5 LGBT Cities for Huge Home Discounts

Tue, Nov 03, 2009

Five cities were recently chosen by GayRealEstate.com – the world’s largest online LGBT real estate network – as great places to live and discounted home prices. What do you think?

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Infertility Clinics Provide Options For Gay Couples

Infertility Clinics Provide Options For Gay Couples

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Infertility Clinics provide additional options for gay and lesbian couples who want to start a family by Justin DiMateo

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Gay Pride and Lesbian Joy : Soul Boosters

Soul Boosters: In Their Boots

Soul Boosters: In Their Boots

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

IN THEIR BOOTS is a compelling new magazine show about the dramatic impact the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan are having on us - the people here at home.

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Having Our Gay Say

Having Your Say: Ending Employment Discrimination in America

Having Your Say: Ending Employment Discrimination in America

Fri, Nov 06, 2009

Familiar political distortions and myths continue being spread, notably by adversaries painting the LGBT community as rich elites.

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Gay Relationships - An Alternative to Feeling Our Way in the Dark?

Gay Relationships - An Alternative to Feeling Our Way in the Dark?

Sun, Nov 01, 2009

There are no real "queens" among men, though there may be legions of people with penises who think that they are Paris Hilton or Ivana Trump.

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What Else to Think About

Featured Headline: Black, Latino, Asian Same-sex Couples Have Most to Gain, Lose from Marriage Fight

Featured Headline: Black, Latino, Asian Same-sex Couples Have Most to Gain, Lose from Marriage Fight

Fri, Oct 30, 2009

Black, Latino, Asian Same-sex couples have most to gain, lose from marriage fight. This article first appeared in publications on America's west coast in 2006. Is it any less true in your community three years later?

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