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- POLL: What kind of federal recognition is most important for same-sex couples?
- Someone You Must Know: Dionne Brand
- Michele's Advice: She Left Me
- Chef Wil Honors September's Jewish Holy Days: Homemade Chicken Soup
- Soul Boosters: The Birds and the Bees
- BLOGGERS OF THE MONTH
- Special Comment: Black Pride and Prejudice
- Romantic Getaways: MAKE IT MADISON!
- Linda Has 2 Mommies: "Is your mother in the room with us?"
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- Why Gays and Lesbians Marry Straight Spouses
- Intimate Lesbian Connection
- I'm Not Gay.. Just Homosexual
- Monogamy: What does it really mean?
- Back to School in the Gay Household
- More Positive Parenting Tips
- The Benefits of Being in Love
- Why Can't I Walk Away?
- Creating a Heart-Centered Commitment Ceremony, Part 3
- Amy Talks Gay Marriage
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September 2010, MY SAME-SEX RELATIONSHIP MATTERS
Why Gays and Lesbians Marry Straight Spouses
By Patricia Cheney Mon, Aug 23, 2010
So, why do we do it? For what reasons do so many gays and lesbians get married to those of the opposite sex? A reflection on why gays and lesbians continue to choose heterosexual marriage as a life option.
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Pat is a life coach who specializes in coming out gay or lesbian in adulthood. She is a lesbian who was in a heterosexual marriage for 20 years-and for 15 of those years didn't even realize she was gay! As she began to emerge from denial, Pat went through a very difficult period, but found the strength to move forward and pull her life back together. She is now divorced and in a committed partnership with a woman. Her relationships with her ex-husband, children and parents are intact. As a result of her experiences, Pat feels a deep sense of obligation to assist others who are in this situation and on their own journey of discovery.
Pat's life coach training was with the International Coach Academy, which is accredited by the International Coach Federation. She holds a bachelor's degree in health science, with formal training in mental health and over 25 years experience working in the health field. In addition, Pat has an MBA. She earned both degrees at Temple University in Philadelphia, PA.

