Any behavior designed to control another person through the use of fear, humiliation, and verbal or physical assault is considered emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is like brainwashing in that it systematically wears away at the victim’s self-confidence, sense of self-worth, trust in his/her perceptions, and self-concept. Emotional abuse cuts to the very core of a person and creates scars that may be longer-lasting than physical ones. Insults, insinuations, criticism, and accusations slowly eat away at the victim’s self-esteem until realistic judgment of the situation becomes impossible. The victim becomes so beaten down that he/she blames themselves for the abuse and often clings to the abuser.

Many victims of emotional abuse become convinced that they are worthless and believe that no one else would want them. The ultimate fear is being left all alone.

There are many types of emotional abuse. Examples are domination, verbal assaults, abusive expectations, emotional blackmail, unpredictable responses, gaslighting, and constant chaos.

By Amanda Chaput

I am a 28-year-old lesbian who is very interested in writing about anything relating to the GLBT society. I am currently taking online courses to obtain my Bachelors of Business Administration degree. I am a very passionate writer, and enjoy writing just about anything. I write poetry, articles and such.